Dating sensitive man
The over-thinker has to want to change some of his or her excessive thoughts.
If you need an answer to a problem or want to plan a trip or any event, your love will be the perfect person to ask to take on the job.This can be extremely beneficial when planning a large event or trying to attack a problem, but it can be extremely detrimental if the over-thinker is creating potential plans over a supposed "pending crisis" that may not even exist.If your love is doing the latter, explain that perhaps he or she is letting that mind go amuck, and to take a deep breathe and think about the situation later. Well, your lover is already pondering about fifty million reasons for you saying it.You share everything with him and he shares everything with you. Problem is, when a person shares everything with you, there will be times where he will seem weak and vulnerable.This doesn’t always inspire confidence like the Marlboro Man.He reacts emotionally instead of rationally all the time. I told him that it would be best for him to keep his emotions to himself right now and once things get more serious, then we could talk more about feelings.
At first he said that I was right and that this behavior has ruined his past relationships, but then he says that it turns him off that I don’t want to talk about feelings.
But you can help your partner fuel that energy into a better channel.
I finally met an emotionally available, nice guy after going through my fair share of emotionally unavailable men.
Over-thinking is a form of anxiety and isn't something that magically goes away if you ask it to. Don't be surprised if your "thinking one" has a creative or particularly kinky outlet.
A place to get out all of that anxious and frantic energy is a great tool.
Your over-thinker has an analytical mind, for better or for worse.